Thursday, March 19, 2009

Heard from the Judge!

It's 9:25am Thursday and I just got out of a patient's room. I check e-mail quickly (like I do 1000 times a day) and there it is: an e-mail from our adoption agency with the title "Today's Update".

I sat there with my fingers on the keyboard ready to open the e-mail bracing for a court date. "This is it -- the moment we've been waiting for!", so I thought.
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Hi Laura,
GOOD NEWS! The judge accepted the explanation letter from NC.
[the Secretary of State of North Carolina wrote a letter to our judge explaining that the way they "glued" our paperwork is the way it is always done, has always been done this way, and that they are unable to change policy at this point.]

Of course, the judge asked that we update a few items for her and after she receives these updates she will issue our court date. Here are the documents needed:
* updated medical
* updated FBI
* updated ABMS letters for all doctors except Dr. O (we updated his letter in February, so she is satisfied with this one)

We are getting REALLY close. I think that you should anticipate travel to occur mid-April.
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{deep breath, in through the nose, out through the mouth....}

1. Our medicals (exams with the 8 specialists we had to see) are done -- just have to send to our Agency. CHECK!

2. Within 3 minutes, I had an e-mail sent to the American Board of Medical Specialty requesting the verifications of the 8 doctors we saw. Tomorrow the documents will be couriered to the State Dept. of Illinois for apostilles and then FedEx'd to us by Saturday. OUTSTANDING

3. FBI Clearance (to show we still don't have an arrest record) was sent for weeks ago and should arrive any day. OUTSTANDING

So, one of the 3 requests are completed and we should have the other two in our hands within a few days. The documents will be sent to Russia hopefully by the end of next week. Then the woman who holds all the power in the world regarding our quest for parenthood will review the docs and set a court date.

Since our Agency is anticipating travel in mid-April, we won't have K home for Easter as hoped for but it is possible that we may be celebrating our 15th Wedding Anniversary on April 16th with her.
We can't think of any better way to celebrate!

7 months of Dossier compilation -- 3+ lbs. worth! That's a lot of paperwork...and we're not done yet!

13 comments:

Amy said...

Wooo hoooo! I promise to connect with you sometime soon on skype!!

Melissa said...

What good news. I can hardly believe you need to update more paperwork. Ugh! But you are getting real close. Easter and your anniversary are coming! What a gift for both if you travel then. I've got my fingers crossed.
Melissa

Laura and Paul Knight said...

I just came across your blog and it brings back sooo many memories of when we adopted our son from Ekat in 2006. You know it's close when there's only a couple things left on the judge's list, and a great feeling when you have expected the items being requested and not something new and out of nowhere. We also felt the same - how can this one person have all this power over bringing a family together? Best of Luck to you all and I'll look forward to following along as you get a court date. We are leaving on trip 1 for our second adoption next week - though not Ekat again :)
Cheers,
Laura

Heather said...

Laura - this is a great step in the right direction. A bit frustrating I'm sure that you are doing MORE paperwork. How many months old were your medicals?

Anonymous said...

Smiles and tears as I read your e-mail!!!! Now I am smiling big - you are close, celebrating your anniversary as a family of 3 sounds really good to me!!! Have a great day!!! Love, Donna

Mom to 3 C's said...

That light at the end of the tunnel just keep getting brighter and brighter!

Some people plant a tree to honor the birth of their child. Perhaps you guys should plant a small forest in honor of K and all the trees used to complete the mass of paperwork to bring her home!

gina

Todd and Jana said...

Great news! I hope your court is very soon.

Joy said...

That is great news!! I am so glad that you are on the ball with all this paperwrok. Wishing for a court date in early April.
Joy

Kim said...

Great news!!!

Anonymous said...

oh yahoo!!! this is SUCH GREAT NEWS!!!
i am praying those final papers come for you quick, Laura and JD!! and that you get your dates even quicker!! the photo of the stack of papers is hilarious, Laura. I keep wondering what i will put on the entire shelf that now is entirely full of dossier papers when we finally complete an adoption!!! Congratulations on 1 giant step closer!! Amy (OT from Philly :) BLEEP!

Adriana said...

Me alegro de las buenas noticias!!! Nosotros a mediados de abril tambien estaremos allí.

Ya no queda nada, ánimo!!

Adriana.

Anonymous said...

you are almost there! :) congratulations.

Our Family said...

Hi Laura!
I was excited to see that you have heard from the judge and that your court date is nearing!
Keeping my fingers crossed that you get your documents quickly and a court date ASAP!
Adrian