Monday, April 27, 2009

Social Worker "Success"

This was an early day for us....had to be ready by 8:30am. (I'm usually on the road commuting by 5:55am so 8:30am is already mid-morning!) Our translator arrived 15 minutes early so we had to gobble down our breakfast in record-breaking time ~ not good prior to driving in Ekat.

We picked up the Social Worker who brought a fellow SW because they needed to stop at a home prior to heading out to the Orphanage. Just out luck...we sat there in the car for 50 minutes while the Social Workers dealt with a sticky custody case on our time!! Finally, at 10am, we were on our way to see K.

When we arrived, we found Adriana and Sergio playing with Pablo in the Playroom!! They will be picking up Pablo tomorrow *for good* so it was wonderful getting to see them again. :)

We waited and waited and finally our little angel was brought in. Two pig tails today, the same black/white/red floral dress that we've seen on 5 occasions now and cautious smiles. She was in good spirits but definitely guarded probably because of the "audience". This didn't stop her from focusing on all of Pablo's toys. Gracias, Pablo, for letting K play with your toys! After almost 2 weeks of the same old toys, we think she's getting bored with them.

Just when little miss K started to open up and hide behind the lacey drapes (one of her favorite "hide and seek" games), in comes the caregiver to take the kids to lunch. UGH!! We only got to see K for 40 minutes!! We were so bummed but Lydia (translator) said we could come back in the afternoon. OK --- feeling better.

During our together time, I glanced over a few times to the SW and knew this was not a big deal. All she was doing was talking with our translator. You'd think it was just a technicality that she had to be there. Later on, I asked what she thought and she responded with a long response. Our translator responded, "She thinks she's beautiful." I think something was lost in translation...oh, well. One step down and only a few more to go.

On the way back to the apartment, Lydia took us to the Church on the Blood, a famous landmark here in Ekaterinburg. (I'll post pics later as I left my camera in her car.) Truly remarkable. JD and I will be going back again next week when it's just the two of us.

Just when we were leaving, it started to snow --- pretty hard. That's when our translator felt it would be best that we *not* go to the Orphanage and instead, start to prepare for tomorrow's meeting with the court translator (independent person not affiliated with our agency). Heart dropped and I was sad. I wanted to go see my little girl as we won't get to see her tomorrow.

Hey - just thought - the next time we see her will be *after* we are officially her parents!! Whooooo-hooooo!!

7 comments:

Mom to 3 C's said...

So glad to hear that all went well... phew... one more hurdle cleared! I am sad to hear that you weren't able to make an afternoon visit. And, K won't stay with you until the week after court is over... do I understand that correctly? I was so hoping she would be with you Wed. night.

Wishing you all the best for Court on Wednesday!!!

gina

Melissa said...

Yeah! Court is coming. I forget if it will be 4/28 or 4/29 but you and Colby both have big days. Tomorrow 4/28, he turns 2! Oh my gosh! Glad things went well with the SW. Can't wait to hear about court.
Melissa

Terrie said...

One of the best parts of my day lately is reading about your time with K. The picture with her little bloomers showing was adorable. Can't believe you are almost officially there!! How exciting.

Amanda said...

Laura - I wanted to say Hi and to let you know who one of your "lurkers" is/are. I've been following your blog for a few weeks now and am SO excited to be "along for the ride" as you pick up your little girl. I praise God for how He is working things out for you. Congrats!!!!

Anonymous said...

Hey Laura,

We will be thinking of you two tomorrow with many prayers going up for a speedy day in court! I can't wait to read the good news on your blog that you are now "Proud Parents" of baby girl K !!!!

Blessings,
Mary and Greg Holt

Anonymous said...

Love all your details - it is so fun to keep up with your trip. Enjoy court it is no big deal, plus I've NEVER heard of a judge saying no to anyone, so it is just a legal thing. You will be so happy when it is over!

Amy said...

I hate to tell you this -- but it probably was just a formality that she was there! She just needs to see that you are normal and bonding... so she can say it in court!! But that's a GOOD THING! Good luck!!

Can't wait to see pics of the church